Michelle Cardenas
Recently, I had the delightful opportunity to attend an event focused on modern manners and dining etiquette, hosted by the Career Success Center, spearheaded by SHSU’s Emily Acker, and featuring the esteemed Diane Gottsman, a nationally recognized expert in the field. The evening included extensive discussion and exploration of proper behavior at the dinner table, and Ms. Gottsman’s expertise certainly did not disappoint.
From the moment I stepped into the venue, I knew I was in for an enlightening experience. The tables were all meticulously set with gleaming silverware and crisp linens, creating a very sophisticated atmosphere. Ms. Gottsman herself was lively and welcoming, creating an atmosphere where everyone felt at ease and encouraged to ask questions.
The event kicked off with a delicious three-course meal, each dish serving as a practical lesson in dining. With each course, Ms. Gottsman guided us through the proper use of utensils, the art of pacing oneself, and the importance of table manners. From soup to dessert, no aspect of dining etiquette was left unexplored.
One of the highlights of the evening was Ms. Gottsman’s attention to detail when it came to handling common dining dilemmas. With humor and expertise, she demonstrated the proper technique for squeezing lemon into a glass, saying no to salads and spaghetti, and even navigating the tricky territory of finger foods with finesse. Her practical advice, along with anecdotes and real-life examples, made the dos and don’ts of dining etiquette easy to understand and remember.
But Ms. Gottsman’s teachings went beyond just the mechanics of eating. Throughout the evening, she emphasized the importance of courtesy, respect, and consideration for others. From the proper way to engage in conversation to the etiquette of using cell phones at the table, her guidance extended to all aspects of social interaction.
As the evening unfolded, I found myself not only learning valuable skills but also gaining a deeper appreciation for the art of gracious living. Ms. Gottsman’s insights into etiquette were both practical and empowering, equipping us with the tools we need to navigate social situations with confidence and ease. Her timeless advice on manners and etiquette will undoubtedly serve me well in both professional and personal settings for years to come.
The LEAP Ambassadors thank the Career Success Center for bringing this event to campus annually. It is a valuable experience to all of our students.
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